HAHA. word brother. im in the same boat as you. You totally took the thoughts from my mind. I will go whereever He tells to me go. I just want to know it right now, loud and clear.

You have been bought for a price.  No longer are you a slave to sin, but a slave to God.  Knowing that He loved us first before we loved Him, pursue the passions God has given to you at the moment.  Don't stop praying and wrestling with what has been presented to you.  Seek the Kingdom first and then you will know where and what you need to do in order to serve with your full capacity.  Even when you find what you think is your calling, do not stop seeking for God can easily call us out of where we are into a new area.

@leadworshipper82 - Please elucidate what you mean.  Am I interpreting correctly that you know the general idea of what you need to do, but not the specifics (like you know you need to worship God, but you don't know if it's through career A/B/C)?

@leadworshipper82 - 

There may be a better or best choice out of the options in front
of you at the moment, but sometimes those doors are not yet open
because you still need to grow more in order to go through that door
(whether it be a relationship or a job).  It isn't always clear cut, but you'll KNOW when where you are isn't where God wants you to be.  Be patient and continue to
work hard to seek the kingdom and GROW.  If you feel God has called you
to something, do not lose sight of that because that may be a glimpse
of where you are to be in the future.

It takes time to develop the needed skills (and you need to find the right training ground) in order to serve
in a specific capacity.  Looking at my story and my dad's, I can only give you encouragement to persevere in searching for the specifics of your calling in the Kingdom.  In my case, I struggled with trying to find out the next step in my journey here on this earth during most of my undergrad years (one more semester left).  It's still going to be a long road ahead of me (imminently GREs and grad school apps), but I'm not going to stop simply because I don't know where the best place for me to serve God's kingdom is.  In the case of my dad, he felt a stirring in his heart to serve and minister to the Chinese people when he was much younger (I think either as a high schooler or grad student).  Now 20 or so years after his initial stirring, he is finally catching a glimpse of the soil that needs to be worked after traveling over the mountains for years (metaphorically).

You have skills and passions that God has gifted to you.  He gave them to you for a reason.  Look at the parable of the talents.  Some of the servants who were granted the master's property went and grew it so the master had more than what he initially granted to the servants.  Likewise, be creative and use the gifts you've been granted in order to best glorify the one who gave them to you.  It isn't easy, but it can be done.  You just need to DO IT and follow His word.  Yeah, there are always tradeoffs (do I go on this missions trip or do I take this research fellowship?) and bad choices ([insert some snappy and totally unrelated career here]), but God can still do what he needs to in your life as long as you are willing to listen and follow Him.  Also, don't forget His tendency to choose those who are messed up or aren't in the most ideal conditions like Moses (bad stage presence) or Daniel (a refugee kidnapped from his own people).  Just be willing to follow God wherever he leads you.

Even a small gain is worth more than not doing anything at all...

@leadworshipper82 - 

Haha, sorry if that came out wrong (-_-)".  I meant in essence, don't slow down to ponder your apparent lack of options but rather plow forward with everything to figure out what's next (within reason).  Here's the beautiful part: it can be something new and unique that the mind that God has gifted you can create.

God gave us our minds to think for a reason.  Use that noggin of yours to consider options along with taking advice from older mentors (pastors, older guys, experienced people) and close brothers (maybe sisters?) around you regarding the specifics of your situaiton (and if possible, your parents).  Throughout all of this process, be in prayer.  Solutions don't usually come easily and neither is the execution of the solution, but it will come.  I can only encourage you from this point of my own struggle to keep on fighting to figure it out.  Find the passion that God has lit within your innermost being and let that fire shine for the world to see.  It will take time, but trust that you are being strengthened by what you are going through now.

I can share two stories (my personal experience and my dad's) if you want some of my contexts regarding my comments to your situation....

@leadworshipper82 - 
Quite true.  Quite true.  heh, this was quite the conversation.  thanks.